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                        DOORWAYS




          Fornication is a sexual misconduct or   minds  with  mental  fantasies  or   once  you  are  married  and  have  a
          sexual impurity outside of the bounds   pornographic  imagery  to  accompany   marriage certificate. Your body is the
          of  marriage.  Fornication  is  sleeping   their  masturbation,  and  these  are   temple of the Holy Ghost.
          with a man or woman that you are not   practices  that  violate  the  Biblical
          married to. It is when you sleep with a   principle  that  we  should  focus  our   Stop sexual immorality today.
          man that is the father of your child or   minds on what is good, doing all to the
          children,  but  you  are  not  married  to   glory of God. This is a sin before God.  Offer your body as a Holy sacrifice
          him.  When  you  have  a  boyfriend  or
          girlfriend  and  engage  in  sexual   5.4 Homosexuality is an abomination   “And so, dear brothers and sisters, * I
          intercourse.                       before God.                        plead with you to give your bodies to
                                                                                God because of all he has done for you.
          When you stay with someone who has   This is an erotic attraction to persons of   Let them be a living and holy sacrifice-
          just paid a portion of dowry (“lobola”),   one’s own sex. Homosexuality includes   the kind he will find acceptable. This is
          for you.                           sexual  thoughts,  feelings,  fantasies,   truly  the  way  to  worship  him.  Don’t
                                             and  overt  sexual  acts  with  same-sex   imitate the behaviour and customs of
          Engaging in sexual immorality without   partners.  A  homosexual  act  is  any   this world, but let God transform you
          a marriage certificate, even if you have   behaviour that involves engaging, even   into a new person by changing the way
          been together for a long time and you   occasionally,  in  sexually  stimulating   you think. Then you will learn to know
          have  kids  together,  is  called   actions  with  another  person  of  the   God’s will for you, which is good and
          cohabitation.                      same sex. Both males are called gays   pleasing and perfect”. (Romans 12:1-2)
                                             and both females are called lesbians.   NLT
          You are a fornicator, even if you are old.   “Thou  shall  not  lie  with  mankind,  as
          It  is  fornication,  and  you  are   with womankind: it is an abomination.”   God  wants  us  to  offer  ourselves,  as
          committing a sin before God.       (Leviticus 18:22).                 living  sacrifices  daily  laying  aside  our
                                                                                energy  and  resources  at  His  disposal
          “But  Fornication,  and  all  uncleanness   Solutions for Sexual immorality:  and trusting Him to guide us. We do this
          or  covetousness,  let  it  not  be  once                             out of gratitude that our sins have been
          named  among  you,  as  you  become   As we have seen, fornication, adultery,   forgiven. God has good, pleasing and
          saints;  neither  filthiness,  nor  foolish   lust, and other forms of non-marital sex   perfect plans for His children.
          talking,  nor  jesting,  which  are  not   are  condemned  in  the  Scripture  and
          convenient...” (Ephesians 5:3-5 KJV)  described as sin. As a Christian, you are   SIXTH DOORWAY:
                                             obliged  to  forsake  sin  and  follow  the
          Now that you are a new creation, the   teachings of Christ.           LIFESTYLE OF A
          Spirit of God resides inside of you. You
          are a temple of the Holy Ghost. “For   Attempting to maintain a Christian life   CHRISTIAN
          this  is  the  will  of  God,  even  your   while  engaging  in  sinful  sexual
          sanctification  that  ye  should  abstain   practices  is  a  contradiction.  If  the
                                                                                         hen you are a child of God,
          from Fornication: that every one of you   sexual  immorality  continues,  one’s
                                                                                         you do not live anyhow. You
          should know how to possess his vessel   spiritual  vitality  and  influence  are   Wneed  to  know  that  we
          in  sanctification  and  honour…”   certain to decline.                represent  the  Kingdom  of God. You
          (1Thessalonians 4:3-4) KJV
                                                                                should live a holy life. When you are a
                                             Sin must be confessed and forsaken if
                                                                                child  of  God,  you  should  attend
          5.3  Masturbation  is  a  sinful  act   one is to expect spiritual growth and   services regularly, pray every day and
          stimulated by lust                 avoid spiritual stagnation. This is a clear   also read the Word of God daily.
                                             statement, abstain, and stop adultery
          Masturbation  is  the  stimulation  of   today.
                                                                                Participate in activities in a church.
          one’s own genitals, which is most often
          accompanied by lustful thoughts.   Stop  Fornication.  Leave  that  man  or
          Many men and women stimulate their   woman. You  can  only  stay  together



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